It depends. If your spouse has an attorney, and if that attorney has filed a notice of appearance, then, most items can be sent to the attorney rather than to your spouse. However, there are certain things that almost always have to be served on the other party and not the attorney - things like the original summons and petition and an order to show cause for contempt all, generally, have to be personally served.
Answered on Oct 17th, 2011 at 3:29 PM